Pitfalls of Not Being a Sexually Informed Therapist
Pitfalls of Not Being a Sexually Informed Therapist Years ago, I saw a cartoon that really made me laugh: In a therapist’s office, a woman is lying on the [...]
“Smart Sex-Smart Love” discussion series
"Smart Sex-Smart Love" discussion series I'm really proud about what we are creating with the, "Smart sex-Smart Love" discussion series at my psychotherapy offices. Last night we had men [...]
Does Masturbating Make You a Sex Addict? What About Porn? What About Bondage? Even the Experts Can’t Agree.
Does Masturbating Make You a Sex Addict? What About Porn? What About Bondage? Even the Experts Can’t Agree. Others include Joe Kort, a sexologist and former sex-addiction therapist who [...]
Sexual Disorientation of Male Sexual Abuse Survivors
Sexual Disorientation of Male Sexual Abuse Survivors Sexual abuse disorients you; it does not orient you. Returning to the scene of the sexual crime. A boy who has become [...]
Case Study: Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences
Case Study: Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences Most couples therapists, if they were to put aside their mask of neutrality, [...]
Straight Men Have Sex with Men For the Cash
Straight Men Have Sex with Men for the Cash This video is about straight men who have sex with men for money. They report it isn't the [...]
Here’s What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay Porn
Here's What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay Porn As a sex and couples’ therapist, I have often seen the seismic reaction that occurs in a [...]
My latest article “Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences”
My latest article "Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences" Most couples therapists, if they were to put aside their mask of [...]
What is the Difference Between Bisexual Men and Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men?
What is the Difference Between Bisexual Men and Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men? People always ask me what the difference is between a bisexual man [...]
Straight Acting Guise and Straight Guys: Why The Obsession By Gay Guys?
Straight Acting Guise and Straight Guys: Why The Obsession by Gay Guys? In this video, Dr. Joe talks about the use of the description "straight acting" guys [...]