"Smart Sex-Smart Love" discussion series I'm really proud about what we are creating with the, "Smart sex-Smart Love" discussion series at my psychotherapy offices. Last night we had men and women, straight, bisexual and gay, caucasian and people of color. Next month we are talking about pornography and gender differences/similarities [...]
Case Study: Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences Most couples therapists, if they were to put aside their mask of neutrality, would agree that women are in a privileged position in therapy because they can usually access their feelings better and have [...]
Here's What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay Porn As a sex and couples’ therapist, I have often seen the seismic reaction that occurs in a relationship when a woman discovers that her man has been looking at or searching for gay porn sites. For the woman [...]
My latest article "Is All Fair in Love and Sex? How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual Differences" Most couples therapists, if they were to put aside their mask of neutrality, would agree that women are in a privileged position in therapy because they can usually access their feelings better and [...]
The Turtle & the Hail Storm: Speaking of Partnership Dr. Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)/“sex addiction”, Relationship Problems & Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. He has authored 4 books and [...]
Toxic Masculinity I have been noticing more and more microaggressions toward men, but I’ve found surprisingly little discussion of this trend. There is a word most people have never heard of: Misandry, meaning hatred of men. It corresponds to misogyny, hatred of women. By noticing microaggressions directed against [...]
Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides This video by Dr. Joe, www.joekort.com, is about Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides. Not every gay man wants to have anal sex. Many consider anal sex as sex and everything else as foreplay. Yet for gay men who [...]
The Heterosexual Trance If you are heterosexual and cisgender you have won the lottery in this lifetime. Our world is designed perfectly for you. You get to hold hands, kiss and say I love you openly and outwardly to the other gender without fear of repercussion, violence, looks [...]
Mixed Orientation Marriage (MOM) & Relationships (MORE): 1 straight spouse, 1 LGBT & Sexually Fluid partner We are beginning a series of videos and in-person discussion groups in Royal Oak, MI titled, "Smart Sex-Smart Love" where we will be addressing relationship issues and sexual issues. Learn more here. The dates and [...]
Sex Counseling / The Top 3 Reasons: Why Men, Women & Couples Need Help You have 3 brains: Your frontal lobe which can reason, the limbic system which experiences fear and pleasure and your brain stem which scans for danger and safety. When dating, if you don't understand [...]
