Here's What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay Porn As a sex and couples’ therapist, I have often seen the seismic reaction that occurs in a relationship when a woman discovers that her man has been looking at or searching for gay porn sites. For the woman [...]
What is the Difference Between Bisexual Men and Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men? People always ask me what the difference is between a bisexual man and a straight man who has sex with men. Here is my answer!
Straight Acting Guise and Straight Guys: Why The Obsession by Gay Guys? In this video, Dr. Joe talks about the use of the description "straight acting" guys as well as why some gay men are obsessed with straight guys.
The Turtle & the Hail Storm: Speaking of Partnership Dr. Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)/“sex addiction”, Relationship Problems & Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. He has authored 4 books and [...]
Toxic Masculinity I have been noticing more and more microaggressions toward men, but I’ve found surprisingly little discussion of this trend. There is a word most people have never heard of: Misandry, meaning hatred of men. It corresponds to misogyny, hatred of women. By noticing microaggressions directed against [...]
Sexual Desire Discrepancy This video by Dr. Joe is about Sexual Desire Discrepancy where one partner wants sex more than the other. I talk about what to do and how to negotiate successfully through that.
Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides This video by Dr. Joe, www.joekort.com, is about Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides. Not every gay man wants to have anal sex. Many consider anal sex as sex and everything else as foreplay. Yet for gay men who [...]
Am I a Sex Addict or a Pervert? This video by Dr. Joe addresses concerns by those who struggle with unwanted behaviors and their partners to distinguish what is going on. Our culture slaps on the label "sex addict" prematurely in what sex therapists Doug Braun-Harvey and Michael [...]
Straight Men and Anal Sex: Your Anus Doesn't Have A Sexual Orientation. Watch Dr. Joe's latest video: Straight Men and Anal Sex: Your Anus Doesn't Have A Sexual Orientation. This video is about straight men who worry about being gay or bisexual simply because they enjoy receiving anal [...]
The Heterosexual Trance If you are heterosexual and cisgender you have won the lottery in this lifetime. Our world is designed perfectly for you. You get to hold hands, kiss and say I love you openly and outwardly to the other gender without fear of repercussion, violence, looks [...]
